November 25

Ecclesiastes 3:5
A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing.

Biblical Insight
Some people may feel joy when they read about a time of embracing, especially the huggers among us. Some may feel surprised to read about a time to refrain from embracing. This verse likely connects to the purity laws in the Torah—any number of sanctions about avoiding human contact during times a person was unclean. Perhaps a broader principle for us today is to understand and respect boundaries in relationships.

Daily Devotion
Perhaps a decade ago we never imagined a day when hugs would be unwelcome in our society. However, a combination of the prevalence of abuse and the recent pandemic brought about significant changes. The implementation of social distancing brought about newfound reservations toward human contact such as hugs, to some degree changing our traditions of physical contact. Although there is some hygienic benefit to the lack of human contact, the mental effect has become a serious issue.

According to Forbes magazine, a person needs at least four hugs a day for survival. Scientific evidence supports the claim that a hug can help reduce high blood pressure, strengthen the immune system, increase feelings of safety, and even strengthen one’s sense of belonging.

No doubt extra precautions should be taken in times of health risks; however, there must be a time for everything. God made us to connect to those around us. Human interaction is necessary for survival. Wisdom encourages balance. Consider how you could reach out to someone in your circle who may need the blessing of human interaction this week.